.if i were a boy--i swear i'd be a better man.

.i loveeee Beyonce. they call me Biance. but i can't get down with this song. it just further makes females have that dudes aren't anything attitude. we as females have no clue what it is like to be a man, and feel the things they feel with the weight of success and being a man on their shoulders. so how can we say we'd be a better man? if you are speaking on the emotional aspect of the male, then yes we would be better, but if you had a man that did all that you do, wouldn't you as a female feel as if he is sappy or gay?

.guys make some stupid decisions without thinking. especailly guys that are in college and highschool. i feel that women forget that men aren't going to grow up as quickly as we do. smh. females sometimes make me so upset. what i do to get over the dumbness that guys bring me to, is just be patient and wait to see what God has in store for me, and then just ignore it. i have come to realize that guys don't know what they want right now. they want to have fun and enjoy themselves before it's time to settle down. i think that is completely necessary. let the guy roam and have his fun now, rather than do it later down the line when it shouldn't be acceptable. but don't wait around for the man to come back to you. there are plenty of guys out there. don't get stuck on one that isn't stuck on you.